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Friday, November 27, 2015

Your Ancestors did WHAT!?!?!?!?

Originally Published 22 Apr 2015
 
I can’t help but chime in on the closest thing to scandal that the genealogical world has seen for a while.   

Last season on the PBS series “Finding Your Roots”, host Henry Louis Gates Jr. did a segment on Ben Affleck’s ancestors.  The ‘megastar’ actor and director, Affleck, supposedly lobbied the host to withhold the fact that one of his ancestors was a slave owner.  Gates was supposedly torn between the risk of upsetting, and perhaps damaging, the icon’s reputation and disclosing the facts that were found.  Emails went back and forth between Gates, who is a Harvard professor, and PBS.   

Gates, who claims to have ‘full editorial control’ over “Finding Your Roots” decided to leave out the ancestral black sheep and instead, focus on other compelling elements of the Affleck family tree.  All was well until Sony Studios had their emails hacked earlier this year.  Guess what some of those hacked emails dealt with…BINGO…the Affleck family cover up.  Everything became public last week. 

Affleck has gone public admitting he pushed to have that ancestor left out, because he was embarrassed that a member of his lineage was a slave owner.  “It left a bad taste in my mouth”, were his words.  He also said he regrets ever having requested that the information be omitted.  Too little, too late.  Mr. Gates and PBS are under direct fire for making the decision and for letting the decision stand. 

So what do we do when we find a black sheep in our family tree?  Do we apologize for their actions…do we cover it up like Ben Affleck wanted to do…do we understand that we are not responsible for the actions that happened hundreds of years ago, even if it was one of our line?  Affleck was not the only guest to have slave owners in his ancestry.  Other guests that discovered a similar ancestor were Ken Burns, Derek Jeter, and Anderson Cooper.  I am sure they were as embarrassed as Affleck was when they found this out, but they accepted it as part of their history and moved on.  Just recently on another genealogical series, “Who Do You Think You Are?”, Bill Paxton discovered slave owners in his ancestry.  He said that he was sorry to hear that, but it is a part of the reality of that time.  He moved on with grace and dignity. 

History is not always pretty.  We have wars, family feuds, war deserters and bigamists (my family has one).  Slavery, discrimination, heinous acts committed in the name of race or religion happened and are recorded.  What we seem to forget is that people, even back then, were merely human.  Slavery is wrong, morally and ethically.  If you asked someone who lived in the southern US 150-200 years ago, they would claim it is the norm.  It’s not pretty, but it is our history.  To ignore the unpleasant events in the past is to do everyone a great injustice.  How can you learn from past mistakes, if you are not willing to admit they even existed?  If the black sheep pops up in your family tree, don’t try to hide it…you don’t need to celebrate it either.  List it as a fact, something that happened, and go on.  I am sure you will find so much more good people in your tree than bad. 

But, getting back to the scandal at hand…What damage was done to PBS and the series “Finding Your Roots”?  Is anyone ever going to be able to trust the hundreds of hours of work put in behind the scenes in dusty courthouse basements and dark microfilm reading rooms?  These are the people who will pay the price – the hard working researchers who did just what they were supposed to, only to have an executive decision made that casts a shadow on what, if anything, can be believed. 

As of now, the Affleck episode is no longer available for viewing on the PBS website.  Is PBS pulling an Affleck and trying to hide what embarrasses them?

Elizabeth Irene - The Mystery Child

First Published 3 August 2015
 
Growing up, all of us youngsters remember Mom and her siblings talking about the rumors of another sibling.  It seems that Samuel Reed and his wife Emma "Gussie" Reed of Lawrenceburg, Indiana may have had a mystery child that they never mentioned or talked about, except in whispers.

No one knew anything about this sibling.  They weren't sure that he/she ever existed.  I found mention of her first when I was combing a book by Milton A. Masing (Dearborn County, Indiana, Cemetery Records, Volume A, Part 1) and found mention of Elizabeth Reed (born in 1903, died in 1905). The book listed the parents, but the last name was spelled Reid, not the more common Reed.  I put the note in my 'to research further' folder (you know, the folder that is about six inches thick), knowing that one day I would come back to it.

Well, it is the day.  I ordered a microfilm from Salt Lake with church records of the German Presbyterian Church.  My excitement grew as I found more and more records of my known family...birth, marriage, baptism, death.  But then I saw ....   HER ....  I found a record of HER birth.  I saw where Elizabeth Irene Reed, the daughter of Samuel Reed and Augusta Courts was  born on 16 October 1903 in Lawrenceburg, Dearborn County, Indiana.  SHE DID EXIST!!  It gave her baptismal date as 11 February 1905, when she was about 16 months old.  

So why the secrecy?  Since none of Sam and Emma's children remember Elizabeth, there is a good chance she did not live long enough to meet her siblings.  Perhaps the memory of losing a child was too much to deal with.  I needed to find out more.  It was time to roll up my genealogical sleeves and see what I could find and what I could deduce.

After searching through more of the microfilm, I found that Samuel and Emma were married on 13 August 1904, ten months after Elizabeth was born.  I also found her death date, 15 February 1905,  a mere 4 days after her baptism.  After talking to a wonderful woman at the Dearborn County Department of Health, who did a real time search of the records for me, we found out Elizabeth, my Aunt Elizabeth, died of pneumonia.  Her mom and dad must have known she was very ill and decided to have her baptized in their local church.  The light bulb is starting to brighten.  Piecing the facts together, I begin to understand the mystery and the secrecy.

Unfortunately for Elizabeth, being born out of wedlock in the early part of the 20th century was looked down on.  Even though her parents eventually married, the stigma was still there.  That is a possible reason why she was not talked about to the rest of the family.  If it had not been for a notation in a library book, her very existence might have been forgotten forever.  

I am happy, exalted, grateful that I was able to bring the memory of Elizabeth alive.  As we all know, a person is never really gone as long as their memory is held by at least one person.
Welcome to the family Aunt Elizabeth.

WELCOME!!! New home - New Focus


Welcome to my new home!

I’m Kim.  Pure and simple…Kim.  I am 50+ years young, the wife of a pretty amazing man, mom to 3 great kids and 3 fur-babies, and Nana to the most adorable 6 year old granddaughter you’d ever want to see (just ask me).  Due to my employer’s decision to sell his business, I no longer work outside the home.  I am finally free to follow my dream, which is to build a super-successful genealogy business, including researching for others and teaching, lecturing and writing.  I began this adventure into my family’s past over 30 years ago.  It started out as a simple school assignment and then snowballed from there.  30+ years later, I am still in love with the chase.

What can you expect from me?  I am a simple small-town girl.  I grew up in a community that was so small (How small was it!?), if there were three cars waiting for the stoplight to change we considered it rush hour.  I am not going to give you ‘fancy rhetoric’, I am going to be me, down home and real.  I will spin tales of family holidays, war heroes, my favorite classes in high school and my first love.  My goal is to share history in a way that ties everything together into one neat package.  

So why a blog?  I finally realize the importance of blogging...of telling our stories, teaching people how to find theirs, and reuniting family history and world history.  It is all fine and good to talk about the dates and places that marked our ancestor's life.  It is neat to hear where they went and what they did to survive.  But without knowing the big picture - the worldwide picture - we don't realize WHY they did what they did.
By bringing world history and family history together, we get a better glimpse into what our ancestors were going through, the turmoil they were facing in their everyday lives, the challenges of being where they were, when they were.  The wars, the famines, the government corruption, Hitler, Mussolini, the Great Depression, the natural disasters...these all played a part in defining who they were and therefore, who we are.  Remember, you and I are products of those who came before us.  What, you don’t agree???  Check out how important DNA has become in the last few years.

I love to teach and research, and now, thanks to the economy, I can do it for a living.  I love to teach people how to find things for themselves.  I love to share my experiences, my mistakes, my successes so others can learn from them.  And I have stories to tell.  Boy, do I have stories to tell!  Stories of families separated due to floods and how they worked to come back together and rebuild what nature took away.  I have stories of men who go off to war and never return – for one reason or another.  I have stories of travels across the pond to lives and experiences unknown.  I have stories of joy…and sadness, success…and failures, life…and death.

Family histories are to share.  We are all connected, somehow, somewhere.  It doesn’t do anyone any good to do all this research and then not let others in on the stories you find.  You will be hearing a lot about our family… Farmer, Macdonald, Ormiston, Weir, Courts, Reed, Lickliter, Deitrich and Marlin.  If any of these names sound familiar to you, be sure to email me and we will share notes.

So, welcome to my blog.  The first few posts will be from my old blog which was posted on my website, http://deep-roots-genealogy.squarespace.com/  .  If you have already read them, tune in for the new stuff coming up.  Please share this blog with your friends, family, heck – even your enemies.  Everyone is welcome to come in and put their feet up with their favorite beverage.  There are hot rolls and homemade bread waiting on you.  Welcome, neighbor.

Thursday, November 26, 2015

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